Sexually transmitted infections (STIs) can affect anyone, and men who have sex with men (MSM) are no exception. Through oral sex, it is possible to contract various STIs such as gonorrhea, syphilis, herpes, and chlamydia. Here, I'll explain how to identify them and how to protect yourself to enjoy sex safely.
Identifying STIs
Some STIs present visible signs, while others can be asymptomatic. It is important to pay attention to any changes in your body and, if necessary, consult a healthcare professional.
- Gonorrhea: It can cause throat irritation and white, yellow, or green discharge.
- Syphilis: The early stages may include painless sores on the mouth or lips.
- Herpes: It manifests as painful blisters or sores on the mouth or lips.
- Chlamydia: It may not show symptoms, but when it does, you may experience throat irritation or pain.
Recommendations for Protection
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Use condoms: Latex or polyurethane condoms can significantly reduce the risk of contracting STIs. There are condoms specifically designed for oral sex, such as flavored condoms and dental dams.
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Oral hygiene: Maintain good oral hygiene by brushing your teeth and using mouthwash regularly. Avoid brushing your teeth or flossing right before oral sex, as this can cause microtears in the gums, increasing the risk of infection.
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Vaccination: Get vaccinated against HPV (human papillomavirus) and hepatitis A and B. These vaccines can prevent infections commonly transmitted through oral sex.
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Regular testing: Get tested for STIs regularly, especially if you have multiple sexual partners. Early detection is key for treatment and for preventing transmission to others.
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Open communication: Talk to your sexual partners about STI testing and protection methods. Open and honest communication can strengthen trust and help both of you make informed decisions.
Remember, enjoying sex safely and consciously is essential for a healthy sex life. STIs should not be an obstacle to your pleasure but a reason to be well-informed and protected. Maintain a positive and responsible attitude, and continue exploring your sexuality with confidence and care.